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Apr. 17th, 2012 02:43 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png)
Dear people of the male persuasion,
Getting drunk and talking at women for minutes on end while slowly starting to invade their personal space does not make those women like you or want to talk to you. It makes those women dart into the library (which is where they were going with their small child before you decided to accost them) and hide out there. It makes them ask if we maybe have a back way out of the library that they can use if you're still in the lobby when they want to leave. It makes them ask if one of the librarians can walk them to their car, even after it's been determined that you left.
It makes you kind of an asshole.
Don't do that.
Getting drunk and talking at women for minutes on end while slowly starting to invade their personal space does not make those women like you or want to talk to you. It makes those women dart into the library (which is where they were going with their small child before you decided to accost them) and hide out there. It makes them ask if we maybe have a back way out of the library that they can use if you're still in the lobby when they want to leave. It makes them ask if one of the librarians can walk them to their car, even after it's been determined that you left.
It makes you kind of an asshole.
Don't do that.
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Date: 2012-04-18 02:33 pm (UTC)