darchildre: a suit with the ace of spades in the pocket (aces)
Renfield ([personal profile] darchildre) wrote2012-06-19 12:59 pm

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Dear coworker,

I realize that we have a lot of time before we open on Tuesdays and thus lots of time to fill with conversation and I do appreciate your desire to learn about and understand new things.

But! I do not want to be here for this weirdass conversation about crossdressing. I am a biromantic asexual woman - I am not remotely qualified to have an intelligent conversation about men* who wear drag and I don't really want to listen to your weird and fumbling comments on it. We have access to the internet - go forth and educate yourself!

I am not here to be your Ambassador From the Land of Queer. I'm happy to talk about my own particular queerness, if you have questions that aren't too intrusive, but I really can't speak on anyone else's, y'know?




*I mean, I occasionally wear a waistcoat and necktie but my reasons for doing so are not necessarily other people's reasons for crossdressing and I am not a man in any case so the situation is somewhat different.
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[personal profile] silveradept 2012-06-20 09:49 pm (UTC)(link)
Oog, that's an awful assumption they made. Do you get to respond in kind about some group they aren't part of but look like they could be?